I've been working with Livia on the concept of consequences. That if she does something bad she will receive some sort of punishment (usually a short time out or a loss of milk privileges). Tonight at dinner she chewed up a carrot in her mouth and then suddenly spit out the whole slobbering mess onto the ground. Logical consequence? She had to clean it up! (At least a good part of it)
What surprised me is the ATTITUDE she gave me about it! I expected some whining. But that's not really what I got! She was rolling her eyes at me, giving me withering glances (really, that's the only way to describe them), and saying things like "It's just too hard. Mommy do it" or "I can't do it. My hands will get dirty." That little scamp was coming up with excuse after excuse as to why she couldn't do it. I thought I was going to explode with trying to be patient through it all!
Makes me a little worried about the attitude I might be getting from her 14 years down the road...